They say you only get 18 summers with your kids, but I’d argue it’s even less—just around 14 to make those core memories before their lives take off in different directions. If you want those summers to count, it’s time to start planning.

Why Family Vacations Matter

Growing up, my parents didn’t have the luxury of time off work, and while I was a latchkey kid, the vacations we did share were unforgettable. Those family trips weren’t annual events, but each one made a lasting impact. They sparked my love for history, culture, and the thrill of discovery. Even when a full-fledged vacation wasn’t feasible, my parents found ways to expose us to new experiences through camp or family visits, opening up new worlds.

Time away together offers a unique way for families to connect. For children, it’s not about the luxurious destinations or fancy meals; it’s about the quality of attention they receive. Kids crave genuine connection—games, laughter, exploring together, and most importantly, seeing their parents fully present and away from daily responsibilities. Being together is only half of it; being engaged and connected is what truly matters.

Planning for Their Ages and Interests

When planning a family trip, remember that the destination and pace should match your children’s ages and interests. Younger kids generally do best with a single destination, avoiding the hustle of multiple locations and giving everyone more time to relax. For teenagers, a multi-stop adventure can add excitement and variety, as they’re often more adaptable to a faster pace and need less constant attention.

One of the best ways to make your family vacation memorable is to involve your kids in the planning. Letting them weigh in on small choices—like whether to stay near the beach or the pool—can create early excitement and a sense of ownership over the experience. Involving them doesn’t mean giving them full control, but rather allowing them to feel part of the adventure.

Tailor the Trip to Their Interests

Knowing what sparks your kids’ curiosity makes a world of difference in shaping a travel itinerary that everyone will love. If your child loves trains, perhaps we arrange a scenic rail trip through mountain vistas. For a budding chef, a family cooking class could be a delightful way to engage everyone. This approach isn’t just about keeping the kids entertained; it’s about enriching their world in ways they’re already passionate about. As a luxury travel advisor, I’m here to help you find those tailored experiences that make your family’s trip unforgettable.

Many high-end resorts now offer enriching children’s programs. These range from ski or snowboard lessons, to rock climbing or even tennis and pickleball. Programs like these offer children a chance to grow their skills, make new friends, and give parents a chance to reconnect.

Make Time for Each Other

While it’s wonderful to be fully present with your children on vacation, don’t forget to set aside time for yourselves as a couple. Taking a break from “parent mode” for a dinner or even a day together isn’t just rejuvenating for you—it shows your kids the value of maintaining a strong relationship. Setting up these boundaries before the trip can help everyone feel more at ease, and luxury resorts are often equipped with trusted childcare options to ensure the whole family’s needs are met.

When children see you relaxed and happy, it brings a sense of harmony to the entire family. It’s a gift to everyone involved, a reminder that parents are not just caregivers but also partners and individuals with shared interests and dreams.

Your family’s vacation isn’t just a trip; it’s an investment in moments that become the cherished stories you’ll share for years to come. Let’s make those summers count.